"Orson, I'm a fan of your work and have
been for a long time. Ender's Game actually changed my life. But I'm
sort of shocked how you glibly deny the facts here.
What's on the ballot is clearly worded:
“Constitutional amendment to provide
that marriage between one man and one woman is the only domestic
legal union that shall be valid or recognized in this State.”
Your argument that "There's no
need to legalize gay marriage." is a moot point. The amendment
isn't about legalizing gay marriage. Same-sex unions are already
illegal in North Carolina. If it's voted down, gay marriage will be
no less illegal. This amendment is specifically calling for a clear
removal of rights for a group of people by taking away the rights of
same-sex couples that wish to be married, AND then giving that same
couple no other alternative for legal recognition by the state.
Let's be clear: The yes vote on this
law is specifically designed to take rights away from gay people, and
the no vote will not give rights to anyone.
Regardless of anyone's morality, this
is obviously a way for government to control a segment of the
populace it deems less "acceptable", be it for moral or
other reasons. After this is ratified, how long before those same
couples you wrote about who now have “the same rights as a
heterosexual couples” will no longer be allowed the right to do the
very things you point to as evidence that, "(t)here are no laws
left standing that discriminate against gay couples"? They will
have no legal standing under the Constitution of North Carolina to
care for their loved ones, make sure they have proper medical
insurance for their partner and their family, or any of the other
rights granted a spouse. I don't think it's a stretch of logic to
think once laws are in place and rights are removed, that these
things could happen. And if one of the couple passes away, imagine
the legal battles that will ensue just trying to get the property in
order; or to deem custody of a child. As they weren't married,
according to North Carolina law, the estate will be taken by the
state if there are no other living biological relatives. And the
child? Who can say, but the guardianship could be dragged out in the
courts for years as there is no mandate from the state to allow the
partner to keep custody, as there would be in a marriage. Not very
family friendly, is it? How is this beneficial to anyone?
Sure, I'm speculating, but so are you,
the difference is, I'm basing my logical speculation on the letter of
the proposed amendment, while your argument seems to stem from
another place.
While I have to respect the right of
the state to pass such legislation based on the majority vote of it's
populace, its popularity doesn't make it any less bigoted. If a
heterosexual couple in North Carolina chooses to live together and
not get married, so-be-it. They have a choice to do so and they can
accept the legal ramifications therein. The gay couple does not have
this same choice; the only right they have are those allowed them
tacitly by the state. And if this amendment passes, they may not
have them for long.
On another note, for someone like you,
who has been a presence online for many years, and who is savvy in
print and new media and now has many avenues to reach people, be it
on your website, in your books, this op ed piece, or on book tours,
frankly I find your piece irresponsible for ignoring the facts and
going on with the fallacy that gay couples have every right availed
to them as straight couples. You base your arguments on anecdotal
information from your perspective. Mr Card, people trust what you
write is well researched, thought-out, and intelligent. You've based
your work on being historically accurate to the depictions of times
you represent by painstakingly researching the era. If you choose to
throw your opinion into the political realm, many people that are
your fans will take what you write as fact, not just mere anecdotal
speculation. The fact that your own state already has legislation on
the books prohibiting same sex marriage, and you have the nerve to
write that “(t)here are no laws left standing that discriminate
against gay couples” is proof that you neither researched or
thought out your statement.
I don't care one lick about anyone's
feelings on the left or right, or about conservatism versus
liberalism. And if you ask me, I'd agree that the sign you mentioned
is silly and stupid, but not just because of an obfuscation, but also
it insults the intelligence of those that read it. This is a simple
question of a state trying to legislate morality and control a
minority group.
I just don't understand why allowing
two people who truly love each other to be married with the official
mandate of the state in which they live is so disruptive to people's
everyday lives. No one is trying to take away the rights of those
already married, or disallowing anyone from doing anything they would
normally do under their own moral code or belief system (except of
course if you're gay). People are still free to believe what they
want, raise their family how they wish, go to the religious building
of their respective faith, and worship in communion with like minded
individuals in almost any way they wish. Even if you don't agree
with the idea of same-sex attraction, and go so far as to see it as
sin, you're free to think that. But according to what I've read in
many religious books, God allowed man free will, and for any man to
attempt to take free will from another man is to go against the
divine. And for the secular humanists or those that wonder what our
founding fathers had in mind, I seem to recall something in the
Declaration of Independence that read:
“We hold these truths to be
self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed
by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these
are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”
And I'll float this out there for some
historical perspective on things, and how morality can change
depending on the times. What if someone proposed this same amendment,
but changed it to read,”...one man and one woman of the same ethnic
heritage...” Today the idea seems not only incredibly bigoted, but
to most it would seem absurd. Who would either present this to be
ratified, or would vote to add this to the state's constitution?
Folks were a
mere 45 years removed from the Loving v. Virginia 1967 Supreme Court
Ruling. In 1958, Mildred Loving (a woman of African and
Rappahannock Native American descent) married Richard Perry Loving (a
white man). They were residents of the Commonwealth of Virginia who
married in the District of Columbia, having left Virginia to evade
the Racial Integrity Act, a state law banning marriages between any
white person and any non-white person. Upon their return to Caroline
County, Virginia, they were charged with violation of the “Racial
Integrity Act of 1924”. They were found sleeping in their bed by a
group of police officers who had invaded their home in the hopes of
finding them in the act of sex (another crime). In their defense,
Mrs. Loving had pointed to a marriage certificate on the wall in
their bedroom; rather than defending them, it became the evidence the
police needed for a criminal charge, because it proved they had been
married in another state. Specifically, they were charged under
Section 20-58 of the Virginia Code, which prohibited interracial
couples from being married out of state and then returning to
Virginia, and Section 20-59, which classified "miscegenation"
as a felony, punishable by a prison sentence of between one and five
years. On January 6, 1959, the Lovings pled guilty and were sentenced
to one year in prison, with the sentence suspended for 25 years on
condition that the couple leave the state of Virginia.
After many lesser rulings, in 1967 the
Lovings had their day in front of the Supreme Court. In a unanimous
decision, the Court overturned their convictions. The court ruled
that Virginia's anti-miscegenation statute violated both the Due
Process Clause and the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth
Amendment. In its decision, the court wrote:
“There is patently no legitimate
overriding purpose independent of invidious racial discrimination
which justifies this classification. The fact that Virginia prohibits
only interracial marriages involving white persons demonstrates that
the racial classifications must stand on their own justification, as
measures designed to maintain White Supremacy.”
And more importantly:
“Marriage is one of the "basic
civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and
survival.... To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a
basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes,
classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality
at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all
the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The
Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not
be restricted by invidious racial discrimination. Under our
Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another
race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the
State.”
Seems as though this is just another
label wrapped around sort of a similar product.
Mr Card, I truly hope you reconsider
your stance. The idea of singling out a group of people, (regardless
of what you think of them, their lives, how they came to be who they
are, etc.) that are law abiding productive members of society and
removing the rights granted to everyone else, goes against the grain
of everything this country is supposed to stand for. And I hope that
you can at least accept that this may be bigger than how we as
individuals see morality.